We heard earlier that Jennie was frugal, now we hear that Max was, too. For very good cause, as Paul remarks. Paul points out that the couple do not have actual financial worries. (Would that we knew how they managed this under such difficult circumstances.)
PAUL: On Pop's side, he was always a worrier about money for as long as we can all remember – and for good cause. After all, he had quite the responsibility of caring for the well-being and education of five children, plus himself and Mom and on an average salary much less than what we earn today –even making allowance for comparative costs of living. As a family man with children, you know better than I, what Pop's worries were through the years. So his concern for finances has become a part of his nature which just can't be discarded overnight just because we now tell him he's got nothing to worry about!
IMAGE: Paul in London, 1966
His pride also comes into play and he obviously wants to remain as independent as possible for as long as possible. He already, in a thinly disguised form, is already accepting help, and no doubt wants to remain independent as far as daily running living expenses go, and be able to give a present once in a while.
Now, Mom should understand this, and she should not harp on it. I wouldn't call him stingy – just thrifty – as he tries to be, because this is how he has had to be all his life – how can he change now? If we understand this too, then maybe on occasion we can talk to Mom and get her to see this as well.